Dr. Ninja was reading blog this morning, and decided to give requested advice.
Why VERY INTELLIGENT women fail with men
Reason #1. They're wrong, but they can't or won't see it or admit it
Dr. Ninja believe most women suffer from this, not just very intelligent ones. Women have innate ability to, when in argument, to change topic suddenly like ninja to one where woman is right. Example:
Dr. Ninja: prepare to die!
Shirou: why?
Dr. Ninja: because you kill Dr. Ninja's sensei!
Shirou: Well, what about the time you hurt my feelings by not complimenting my new kimono? I didn't kill you then!
Dr. Ninja: what?
Reason #2: They're blind and arrogant
*Remember - Dr Ninja did not make these titles, just take them from existing article. Dr. Ninja see this in very intelligent women - they rather prove point than swallow pride to make relationship less bumpy. Sometimes in relationship no one wins - this is what Dr. Ninja refers to as "dating". If argument occur, but neither one want to apologize or back down, then relationship turn into relationshit. This require one party to be bigger person, and say "ok, lets stop fighting and make sweet sweet love". Ok, forget sweet sweet love part for now. However, most very intelligent women know they are right, so refuse to give inch. This bad. Now, Dr. Ninja not saying men shouldn't give inch - most of time, men probably wrong in relationship. However, this article for very intelligent women, not guys.
Reason #3: Poor social skills
This one is gimme. Very intelligent women normally do not have good social skills - they have hard time communicating with most guys, and have natural sarcasm/condescension. Guys dont like when women they first meet talk down to them - not sexy. Plus, most very intelligent women have odd quirks like bad jokes, correcting grammar, or sock collections. Dr. Ninja not mean anyone in particular, just saying - it hard for guys who just getting to know girl when they discover she has weird habit, like sniffing armpits. Poor Critical.
Reason #4: They psyche themselves out
This is tough one - see, most women believe in fairytale relationship, so each relationship has to be 'the one'. Dr. Ninja appreciate each sword - Dr. Ninja do not expect sword to last forever, because that is unrealistic. Dr. Ninja just look forward to killing many enemies with sword, therefore does not put too much pressure on sword. That most cases. Very intelligent women though, sometimes get psyched out for different reason - they analyze relationships/dating, and believe that relationship will not work because guys are scum, or dating will interfere with career - whatever reason, girl limits relationship possibilities before they start. This bad.
Reason #5: They seek only informational solutions
Dr. Ninja doesnt like this title. Very intelligent women use logic in relationship sometimes when should be using emotion - thinking with heart instead of head. That what title mean, but Dr. Dating take too long to say.
Dr. Ninja will complete column some other time, when not busy.
*throws down smoke bomb* Ninja vanish! -poof-
Dr. Ninja
Dr. Ninja believe most women suffer from this, not just very intelligent ones. Women have innate ability to, when in argument, to change topic suddenly like ninja to one where woman is right. Example:
Dr. Ninja: prepare to die!
Shirou: why?
Dr. Ninja: because you kill Dr. Ninja's sensei!
Shirou: Well, what about the time you hurt my feelings by not complimenting my new kimono? I didn't kill you then!
Dr. Ninja: what?
Reason #2: They're blind and arrogant
*Remember - Dr Ninja did not make these titles, just take them from existing article. Dr. Ninja see this in very intelligent women - they rather prove point than swallow pride to make relationship less bumpy. Sometimes in relationship no one wins - this is what Dr. Ninja refers to as "dating". If argument occur, but neither one want to apologize or back down, then relationship turn into relationshit. This require one party to be bigger person, and say "ok, lets stop fighting and make sweet sweet love". Ok, forget sweet sweet love part for now. However, most very intelligent women know they are right, so refuse to give inch. This bad. Now, Dr. Ninja not saying men shouldn't give inch - most of time, men probably wrong in relationship. However, this article for very intelligent women, not guys.
Reason #3: Poor social skills
This one is gimme. Very intelligent women normally do not have good social skills - they have hard time communicating with most guys, and have natural sarcasm/condescension. Guys dont like when women they first meet talk down to them - not sexy. Plus, most very intelligent women have odd quirks like bad jokes, correcting grammar, or sock collections. Dr. Ninja not mean anyone in particular, just saying - it hard for guys who just getting to know girl when they discover she has weird habit, like sniffing armpits. Poor Critical.
Reason #4: They psyche themselves out
This is tough one - see, most women believe in fairytale relationship, so each relationship has to be 'the one'. Dr. Ninja appreciate each sword - Dr. Ninja do not expect sword to last forever, because that is unrealistic. Dr. Ninja just look forward to killing many enemies with sword, therefore does not put too much pressure on sword. That most cases. Very intelligent women though, sometimes get psyched out for different reason - they analyze relationships/dating, and believe that relationship will not work because guys are scum, or dating will interfere with career - whatever reason, girl limits relationship possibilities before they start. This bad.
Reason #5: They seek only informational solutions
Dr. Ninja doesnt like this title. Very intelligent women use logic in relationship sometimes when should be using emotion - thinking with heart instead of head. That what title mean, but Dr. Dating take too long to say.
Dr. Ninja will complete column some other time, when not busy.
*throws down smoke bomb* Ninja vanish! -poof-
Dr. Ninja
